In memory of late 2008-Part 1 End of collage Life

Time passes really soon, things that might matter a lot at a time may lose the significance. Someone rightly said-"Time is a great healer". It not only heals away the wounds, but also blurs the memories that we cherish. a Lot has changed since last time, and a lot has changed with the guy who last happened to write the blog and the guy who is writing this blog, both seems far apart.

Coming back to think of it, This guy is not a college going freak with lots of expectations and a lot of dreams to cherish. This guy is more of a optimistic but in constraints guy. Thinking of the last days @ college, yeah, I do miss that a lot. Just to recollect these days, my last year was a period of my transformation,physically-from a 85 kgs Fat A** to a moderate weight dark complexioned person.Intellectually, I dont even know the defination of the word intellect, I guess I am not the right person to shout for attention, so better leave dis to your comments. Coming back to the memoirs that constituted the Year 2008.

The year is definately gonna be one of the most important year of my life just because of the virtue of the activities that happened. I believe that in every person'ss life, this phase comes, when the person tries to find his own identity, when the search for his/her own existance that was prior being overshadowed by his/her parents. the responsibilities that befall on the person makes him feel more of a gentleman/lady than a guy/gal.

The end of college life :

I have always being a guy of a very few friends and comparatively a large number of bit noires. I gues, that comes with trade, if you have a very reserved / introvert nature. But the end of college was definately a delight, with me wanted to live each and every moment umptieth number of times. Out of nowhere I was suddenly part of a group, that gave me a sense of belonging, during the last two months of my collage life, I had experienced life. Be it when someone replaced the Allout refill with water, or when someone closed the door knob to take the "hell outta me" (Do I need to mention that is was with my Wingmates @ hostel) or when we had a dance party wid we getting new perspective of my roomy, or the water buckets that kept pouring in from all directions after the JIVE night, or the Vatsal busy in making one of the brilliant creation, Maan I was just a great Patriot of his sketches and still hav kept them in my orkut profile.

..When I got a great help of a friend I hadnt expected much from (of crse, Anvi and Kunal), I neva knew that I just dint realize what I had achieved in these four years of my collage stay. May be that would be true friends, for whom no word of thanks or gratitude or praise would suffice.

..When suddenly a very dear friend of mine (anuj) got something more than Mere Bday Bumps (I still dread the day, and a s a matter of policy, have decided to completely refrain from the same. But as we say, silverlining amidst the dark clouds. yeah, or so i think. I suddenly realised, that I belonged to this collage, this hostel, this grround, this locality for ever. I belonged to a group that I never knew existed for me. Can never forget the night-out that we frns had (Sorry, can't mention more but the fact that do go to India Gate @ 12 MIDNIGHT and play there, and do go to Comesome @ 3 am to enjoy the late night supper). Can never forget the walks post dinner filled with so much intellectual and serious and ,well dont start getting ideas,with all gosssips and fun and leg pulling, a gr8 time to learn this art if you are JIITian). When we suddenly realized that we could spend much more than we do, and suddenly started having ice creams from vadilal wala thela on daily basis. Or the late night movies (not to mention my record of watching back to back 57 movies in just week lol).

..I suddenly discovered true friends in faces that I had seen umptieth number of times passing by, but cudnt realise them to be, Can never forget Prianka (40362 lol) helping me out in coding when I had got the deadline to catch, and her remarks (I am not gonna mention that) when I asked her abt status of her project.

..Of gaurav bhai busy in his project, but whenever I reached out to him for help, His transforming like nobody could be more at leisure than him to help me out in any of my work. One thing to mention, I have never seen anyone with soo many swift changes in moods. You can find him worried about some acad work in a second, and in another second, hes back to leg pulling. Hatz off to you buddy.

..Of anuj bhai aka Netaji, he can go to any amount of trouble just to help you out, he was one of the true reveletion when it came to defination of friend, as it took just a few days for me to realize hw much of a jem of a friend I was earlier missing, I was in touch with earlier friends, but anuj became a nice buddy of mine in suchha short span of time, his everlasting smile, his promtness to help and his ideas are something I am always gonna remember.

..Shobhita, umm,well I should have mentioned her name before in the list, anyways, I hoep she doesnt get offended, as I found her a real jem. I wonder if anyone can be as much of a great friend as Shobhita aka tinni, hope u r not gonna mind it. A night before infy interview, she was the one who took my mock interview and gave me tips, amy be I am here in Infy PC writing a blog today is because of her help. I admired her Vocab, usage of typical english jargons that made me to look to dictionary every time she uses one of her typical tactonic uniquely decipherable jargonic uncomprehendable word, well my vocab is not that good, neva mind, you got the idea of it. A typical gal wid books as her inseperable companions.

.. My roomy,, here comes praneet, whenevr I am gonna remember about friends, This was the guy I always looked upto for suggestions, for help, for guidance. He was the guiding star when it came to career. His suggestions were something I was prompt to take. I am always gonna remember the fights we used to have over pity issues and now I can more that convinced that Bihar is Bliss on earth and MP is a BIMARU and poor state, datz gonna start a fight yet again, but well, whoz complaining :). Jokes apart, That was really a hell true friend of mine, Frankly speaking, I wouldnt have dared to stand for him if there was a discussion behind my back against me. He did stand for me whenever anyone had got anything against me. I dont know, but his charm, innocence and straightforwardness got me all flattered and try to emulate him. The reconciliations after the fights were damn awesome, as he was in himself at that time, I dont know how much i knew him, but once, when he said that he considers me as his true friend, I was shocked as well as thankful to thy as I had found one too that very moment. Of course, in collage life, He knew me most, well dat was the, how to put it as, umm, part of the trade as he was my roomy. Still, I call him even now wheneva I am in middle of nowhere, because of the trust I have on him. I know, that this is the guy I can always count on, And am gonna do everything in my power to assist him. this guy deserves the best in the world, coz well, had I mentioned, He iss leonardo de Vinci of our collage:-a born actor, a script writer, a dancer, an astrologer, a dreamer who achieves, a self made man, a speaker, a listener, a phylanthropist, a thinker, a phylosopher, a kid, a mature entity, a realist, a confidant personna, a vulnerable and kind hearted soul, and a helping guy these r a very few shades I could see of him.

Well, in collage life, there were umpty number of friends whom I havnt mentioned n this section due to lack of time, Would try to recollect some more sweetfound memoirs of the past.

I just feel live reliving the entire end of collage life in past, that feels enthrilling as well as nostallgic.

So guys, as of now, You have pretty much understood the meaning and importance of friends in my life.. We all have amazing experiences in our life, but there is a need to pen down them as well as these are something that are the most valuable assets of our lives. I am glad I pen down a very few of the memories, a lot remains to be said, but well, there is never enough when it comes to memories. I am sorry again not to have mentioned all the names of friends, but, my regards for my friends doesnt need any hard bound proof.

To remember these old memories is an experience in itself. and well, against the quote of one of my dear friend, I would like to say that I respect them all, and I am honoured to be your friend.



The end of the college Life was really a soul touching experience which has been bound deep in the heart, The old memmories keep on creeping, but now, as the new year has just woken me up to the beginning of a new bright day, It is time to move on, to learn from the past and to perfect the future. That is what makes the life. coz Life keeps moving in, and waits for none. Just keep on moving, but do ensure to take the learnings from past with you. as this is something which is your most valuable asset, and that shapes up a bright and promising future. Accept the faults in you and make them, mould them , twist them to make your future brilliant and illuminant. Thats what I have learnt from past, besides, how lucky I am to have such true friends in my life. And How much I appreciate the same is the only thought that is hovering my mind as of now.
There is so much to say, so much to share, soo many slangs to giv to SG (our esteemed HOD), so would continue memoirs Part 2 in the next blog. Keep in touch. n do lemme know ur views and comments. all critics are most welcome...